ChineseandWesternMarriageViewHaveyoueverwanttotalkaboutaforeignboyfriend??Haveyoueverwanttomarryforeigners?Whatyourstandardofchoosingalover?TheChineseStandardofChoosingaloverTheChineseStandardofChoosingaloverForChinese,ForChinese,thefirstfactorthefirstfactortoconsideristoconsideristhefamily’sbackground.thefamily’sbackground.Second,Second,thetwofamiliesthetwofamiliesshouldbeontheequalshouldbeontheequalsocialstatus.Andthefinancialsocialstatus.Andthefinancialconditionshouldbewell.conditionshouldbewell.ThenThen,theeducationbackground,theeducationbackgroundistakenintoconsideration.istakenintoconsideration.ThelastfactorThelastfactortothinkisthetothinkistheperson’sappearanceandfigures.person’sappearanceandfigures.TheWesternStandardofChoosingaloverForwesterners,themostimportantfactoristhetwoperson’sfeelings.Iftheyfeelnicewitheachother,theymaycombinewitheachother.Therestconditionssuchasthefamilybackgroundoreducationbackground,theymaynottakeintoaccount.Theycanobtainmorefreedomandequal.Theycandecidewhichlovertochoosebythemselves.Theycantalkaboutitwiththeirparents.ThepurposeofmarriageChinesetraditionalmarriageisbasedonfamilyratherthanlove.Itmeansthat:Marriagecanmakethetwofamiliesbiggerandbigger,enlargethescaleofrelatives.While,nowadays,thepurposeoftraditionalmarriageacknowledgetheheavyimpact.Theyoungerpayattentiontothemarriagewhichtruelovecomefirst.Butitisnotasimplethingtochangeloveintothemainpurposeinthehighlytraditionalcountry.ThepurposeofmarriageWesterncountriesLoveandbothsexesarethegroundofwesternmarriage.Thepeoplewhofallsinlovewitheachotherexpecttogainafullresult.Sotheywillchoosetogetmarried.Theysearchforanoppositesexpartnerbecauseoftheydesiretomeetthelongdemandofphysiologyandpsychology.Theythinkthatthemarriagewithoutloveisimmoralandlow-quality.ChineseweddingceremonyChineseweddingceremonyThewholeweddingisred,anditwasthecolorrepresentingjoyousinthetraditionalChina.Thismakestheweddingceremonybecomescheerful.InthetraditionalChinesewedding,thebridegenerallywearredclothesandaredsilkinherhead.Andthebridegroomgenerallywearagownjacket.Theyholdtheweddingceremonyinthechurch.Thebride’sfathergivesthehandofthebridetothebridegroom,thentheywillchangetheirringsandkisswitheachother.WesternweddingceremonyWesternweddingceremonyThewesternweddingceremonybelongstoromantictypes,thewholeweddingfromstarttoendingisfullofromanticbreath.Thebride‘sdressiscommonlywhite,andthebridegroomisintheblacksuit.TheChineseRelationshipbetweenHusbandandWifeInthemodernsociety,thegapbetweenmaleandInthemodernsociety,thegapbetweenmaleandfemaleisnotverygreat.Manywomentakepartinfemaleisnotverygreat.Manywomentakepartinsocialworkandkeepeconomicindependencesocialworkandkeepeconomicindependencerelatively.Tosomeextent,themajorityofwomenrelatively.Tosomeextent,themajorityofwomendependonmen.dependonmen.InChina,peoplethinkthatbeingfull-timehousewifeInChina,peoplethinkthatbeingfull-timehousewifeisuniversalandthewomanishappy,buttheyalwaysisuniversalandthewomanishappy,buttheyalwayslookdownuponthemanwhobecomesfull-timelookdownuponthemanwhobecomesfull-timehouseman.houseman.TheChineseRelationshipbetweenHusbandandWifeInChina,thehusbandoftenplaysaleadingroleinInChina,thehusbandoftenplaysaleadingroleinthemarriage,andhiswifeistothesubordinatestatus.themarriage,andhiswifeistothesubordinatestatus.ThiskindofmarriagestructureisduetothetraditionalThiskindofmarriagestructureisduetothetraditionalculturaldivision,thatis"Malemasteroutsideandculturaldivision,thatis"Malemasteroutsideandwomenmasterinside".womenmasterinside".Thehusbandundertakesthefamilylife'smainThehusbandundertakesthefamilylife'smaineconomicresponsibilitywhilethewife’stasksareeconomicresponsibilitywhilethewife’stasksaremanaginghousework,takingcareoftheirmanaginghousework,takingcareoftheirparents,helpingthehusbandandteachingtheirparents,helpingthehusbandandteachingtheirchildren.children.ThewesternRelationshipbetweenHusbandandWife1、Thewesternersbelievethatthehusbandandwifeshouldbeequal.Intheirownwords:“Husbandandwifeshouldbeequalpartners.”2、Inwesterncountries,thehusbandsandthewivescanallfindjobsoutsideandundertakethefamilylife'seconomicresponsibilitytogether.3、Thehusbandsalsodosomehouseworkandcooking,sometimestheircookingskillmaybebetterthantheirwives.4、Theyalsosharetheresponsibilityoftakingcareofchildren.Theyalwayseducateandlookaftertheirchildrentogether.Whyhavethesedifferencebetweenchinaandwestern?thereasonwhyChineseandwesternershavedifferentmarriageideasisthattheyhavedifferentcustomsandfaiths.AlthoughtherearesomanydifferencesAlthoughtherearesomanydifferencesbetweenChinaandwest,allofthemhavebetweenChinaandwest,allofthemhavetheirownhappiness.Andpeoplewillblesstheirownhappiness.Andpeoplewillblessthenewcouplesallthesame.thenewcouplesallthesame.