双语:你的成长中会经历20个重要变化1.Losingtheabilitytoeatwhateverthehellyouwantwithimpunityandfeelingnosideeffectsornoticeableweightgain,alongwitharelativeamountoftoningovertheentiretyofyourbodyeventhoughyouliterallyneverworkout.以前，你可以随心所欲吃任何想吃的东西，而不用担心生病、胃不舒服或体重明显增加；以前，你几乎从不运动，体型也不会发酵一圈。但现在，你再也不能了！2.Takingdatesandrelationshipsmoreseriouslybecauseyouarefinallyinthatphaseofyourlifewhereyoucouldactuallyenvisionyourselfgettingmarriedtosomeonedowntheline,whereasyouwerealwaysabletobrushitoffwithsomethingalongthelinesof"It'snotlikeI'mgoingtogetmarried,I'mwaytooyoungforthat."开始认真对待恋爱关系。人生的这个阶段，你开始实际考虑自己会跟某人结婚过一辈子，但潜意识里你又会嘀咕：“我才不会就这样结婚，我还年轻着呢！”3.Becomingacutelyawareofwhatitisthatyou'redoingforworkandhowthatrelatestothestudiesandskillsyoupaidallthatmoneytoacquire.(Likelyitdoesn'trelatethatmuchatall,andmakesyoufeelmarkedlybitteraboutallthosepeoplewhoinsistedhowuseful"PoliticalScience"wasgoingtobe.)强烈意识到工作的意义以及你为了学习和技能所付诸的投资（你很可能会发现工作和你所受的教育完全没有多大联系，对那些还信誓旦旦认为“政治科学”多么有用的人，你表示苦涩无语。）4.Forcingyourselftostartenjoyingallofthefoodsyouhadoncewrittenoffcompletelyas"gross"becauseyouknowthatthey'regoodforyou,anddirectlyrelatedtohowgoodyou'regoingtofeelthroughouttheday.Yes,spinachandbroiledfish,I'mtalkingtoyou.慢慢要求自己去吃那些曾经还被自己鄙弃的“难吃”食物，比如菠菜和烤鱼，因为你明白这些食物对身体有好处，甚至能直接影响你一天的精力。5.Becomingmarkedlylessinsecureaboutallofthethingswhichusedtotortureyouinadolescence,suchaswhetheryouarewearingthecoolestbrandofjeans.(Youknowthatyoucan'taffordthosejeansregardless,soitdoesn'tevenmatterifpeoplethinkthey'recool.)对那些曾让青春期的你倍感烦恼的事情明显少了很多介意，例如牛仔裤是否够大牌（其实你知道自己无论如何也买不起大牌牛仔裤，所以别人怎么想，你都无所谓了。）6.Learningtotempertheexistentialcrisesyougothroughwhenyouarereferredtoas"sir"or"ma'am"bykidswhoaren'teventhatyoung.当被小孩（或许还不是特别小的小孩）叫成“叔叔”或“阿姨”时，你会感到恼火不已。7.RealizingthatthevastmajorityofpeopleonyourFacebookarenowwhatyounotsolongagowouldhaveconsidered"old,"anddoing"oldpeople"thingssuchasbuyinghomesandhavingchildren--eventhoughyoualwaysimaginedyouwouldbeoffofFacebookthesecondthosekindsofthingsstartedhappening.以前你认为只有“不再年轻”才会买房子结婚生子，但你发现Facebook上的大部分好友现在就已经步入这个行列了。以前你还想象，只要Facebook上一出现这类消息你就立马下线呢！8.Talkingtoyourparentsandnoticingthatyouare,inmanyways,addressingeachotherasequalsinawaythatneverusedtohappen.(Thatis,unlessyouareaskingthemformoneyorsomeotherfavor,inwhichcaseyouareaboutfiveyearsoldagain.)当你跟父母谈话时，渐渐用成人平辈的方式称呼彼此了，这可真是前所未有的事情！（当然，如果你还伸手向父母要钱或寻求帮助，那你很可能表现得像个五岁的孩子。）9.Understandingmuchmorequicklywhoisrightorwrongforyouinaromanticsense,andnotbeingaswillinganymoretostickaroundwithsomeonewhoclearlydoesn'tmakethegrade.在恋爱方面，能很快判断出对方适不适合自己，再也不会随便跟“不达标”的人耗时间了。10.Gettingmoreandmorebravewhenitcomestodeletingpeoplefromyourphone/friendslist/lifeingeneralwhenyouarejustgettingtiredofthembeingaroundyouandcanfeelthatthey'redraggingyoudown.一旦厌倦身边某些对自己有...
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