I摘 要《聊斋志异》是中国经典的小说著作,它塑造了许多典型的女性形象,《细柳》篇是其家庭教育思想的重点篇目,文中体现了启发自觉、因材施教、宽严相济、循序渐进等先进的教育思想。细柳的家庭教育思想不仅反映了是蒲松龄的教育思想,也反映了当时社会的教育观念。生活环境的塑造、细柳个人的素质、蒲松龄的价值选择等因素共同形成了细柳的家庭教育思想。从对子女家庭教育的意义来说,《细柳》向我们展示了一个独立女性成功培养孩子成才的教育过程,她的家庭教育思想给我们留下了深刻的印象,对现代家庭教育具有一定的启示意义。关键词:《聊斋志异》;细柳;家庭教育IIAbstractLiaozhaizhiyi is a classic novel in China, which has shaped many typical female images. The article "Xiliu" is the key part of his family education thoughts, which embodies the advanced education thoughts such as inspiring self-consciousness, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, combining leniency with strictness and gradual progress. Xiliu's family education thought not only reflects Pu Songling's education thought, but also reflects the social education idea at that time. The shaping of the living environment, the personal quality of Xiliu, and the value choice of Pu Songling form the family education thought of Xiliu. In terms of the significance of family education for children, the willow shows us a successful education process for independent women to cultivate their children. Her family education thought has left us a deep impression and has certain enlightenment significance for modern family education.Key words:Liaozhaizhiyi; Xiliu; family education III目 录一、引言......................................................................................................................1二、《聊斋志异》中细柳的家庭教育思想...............................................................1(一)启发自觉...........................................................................