摘 要“二孩”家庭过于关注二宝忽视了大宝的心理健康教育，大宝自身的气质、父母处理家庭矛盾的不公正、祖辈重男轻女的思想和家园缺乏沟通是造成大宝产生心理冲击的重要因素。家庭应该摒弃重男轻女的落后思想，学会平等对待两个孩子；父母多花时间陪伴大宝，建立大宝的安全感；父母及时与老师沟通交流了解大宝的最新心理变化并进行心理疏导。总之，解决大宝心理发展问题还需要父母和幼儿园的共同努力。 关键词:“二孩”;父母;养育;心理冲击IAbstractThe second child family pays too much attention to the psychological health education of Dabao and ignores the psychological health education of Dabao, the unfair treatment of family conflicts by parents and the lack of communication between patriarchal ideology and home are the important factors that cause the psychological impact of Dabao. The family should abandon the backward thinking of son preference and learn to treat two children fairly in the way of democratic education; parents spend more time with Dabao to establish Dabao's sense of security; parents should communicate with teachers in time to understand the latest psychological changes of Dabao and conduct psychological counseling. In a word, to solve the problem of Dabao's psychological development needs the joint efforts of parents and kindergarten.Key words: “The two child”; Parental; Rearing; Psychological impactII目 录引 言............................................................1一、研究对象的基本情况..............................................1（一）家庭信息......................................................1（二）案例呈现......................................................2二、大宝出现心理冲击的问题剖析......................................3（一）幼儿自身的气质................................................3（二）父母处理家庭矛盾的不公正......................................4（三）祖辈重男轻女的思想...........................................
