五条垂暮之年才明白的道理Lifeisnoteasywhenyouarepursuingsomethingworthwhileandreadytolearnfromthebestexperiences.Mostofthetime,welearnthelessonsfromtheoldandwiseastheyhavealreadybeenwhereweareandhavedonewhatwedo.Butwehardlytaketheiradviceinadvance.Weneverthinkofthisasaprecaution.Wealwayslearnitfromourlifeandrarelydoeslifeteachussomethinginaeasyway.Italwaystakestestsandthenfailsustolearnanythingworthwhile.Herearefivelifelessonswhichpeoplewilllearnthehardwayinmajorityofcases.当你想追寻值得做的事情并准备学习最好的经验时，生活并不是简单的。大多数的时候，我们从老者和智者那里学习经验，因为他们也曾经和我们一样年轻过，也曾做过我们现在做的事情。但是我们很难提前采取他们的建议。我们从未把这当做预防措施。我们总是从自己的生活中去学习，而生活也很少用简单的方式来教我们。它总是测试我们，让我们通过失败来学习有价值的东西。下面的这五个教训，大部分的情况下人们都是费一番苦功才会学到。1.Ittakesconsistenttimeandefforttobeanexpertinanyarea.无论想成为哪个领域的专家，都需要付出同样的时间和努力。Thisisthefirstandforemostthingtokeepinmind.Peopleusuallygetdiscouragedwhenittakesmoretimethantheythoughtitwill.Onethingtokeepinmindisthatpeoplereferonlytopeoplewhohavealreadyachievedwhatyouwanttobe,whichmostpeoplefailtodo.Theylookatotherunsuccessfulpeopleandapplythosecriteriatothemevenbeforetheytakeaction.Lookatanysuccessfulpersonandyou’llnoticeonethingcommoninallofthem.Theytooktimetolearnandmasteredtheircraftlikenooneelse.Thereisnoelevatortosuccess;youhavetotakethestairs.这是你要记住的第一件事，也是最重要的一件事。当人们觉得所用的时间比预想的要长时，通常都会垂头丧气。但要记住一点，人们只会提起已经取得成功的人，而大部分的人都以失败告终。人们看着其他没成功的人，自己还未行动，就把那些准则用到他们身上。随便找出一个成功的人，你就会发现成功人士的共同点。他们都比常人努力，拿时间去学习并掌握技能。通往成功的路上没有电梯，你只能去一级一级爬楼梯。2.Youdon’thavetoliveyourlifeinawaysocietywantsyouto.你不必以社会想让你生活的方式去生活Decadesofoldbeliefs,superstitionsandritualsarebeingperformedthesedaysandarefollowedblindlywithoutquestioningtheirrationale.Parentssometimesforcetheirchildrentoselectacareertheydon’twantbecauseotherchildrenhaveselectedthatcareer.Girlsaremadetofollowsomeritualsintheirfamilywhichmakesnosensetothematall.Worstofall,peoplefollowthemwithoutevenasking.Thereisnoharminoldritualsandbeliefsbutwhenyoupursuethembeforeyourinterest,soonerorlateryou’llrealizethatyoushouldfirstdowhatyouthinkisright.几十年的旧习、迷信和规矩最近又开始风行，人们盲目地跟风而不去质疑这样做的理论依据。父母们有时会强迫孩子选择孩子不喜欢的专业就因为其他孩子选择了那个专业。女孩们在家里要守一些对她们来说无任何意义的规矩。最糟糕的是，人们连问都不问，就这样做。老规矩和旧习俗并无什么害处，但当你在感兴趣之前就去做时，不久你就会意识到你应该先做自己认为是正确的事情。3.Wedon’tcareaboutthethingswegeteasily.我们不在乎容易得到的东西Thisistrueinalltheareasoflife.Takehealthforexample.Veryfewpeopletaketheirhealthseriously.Theyknowthatiftheirhealthislost,theywon’tbehappy,stilltheyeatjunkfoodandneverexercise,keepaccumulatingfatandkeepspendingonweightlossprograms.Stillnothingworks.Why?Becausetheydon’ttaketheirhealthseriouslyandtherealreasonbehindthatistheyhavegotitforfree.Wespendthousandsoncarsandtakecareofthemnicely.Imaginewhatwouldhavebeenthepriceofhumanbodyifwehadtopayforit?Andthenimaginehowwellwewouldtakecareofitifwehadpaidahugeamountofmo...
